A Ritual for Divorce or Leaving a Relationship Sometimes the most positive way forward is to separate. This is usually a painful and traumatic time and little is done in our culture to honour the parting. Lawyers deal with the legalities and social implications, but the emotional effects can linger on for years.
A personally designed ritual is often the passage which brings closure at this time. Such a ritual includes (as well as music, symbols and readings) ways to: Look back and gain an understanding of what we have gained in wealth and learning from our experiences Let go of the negative times and issues Identify the strengths and wisdom we take with us Honour those who have supported and taught us Identify our needs in our new situation